The reality of low maintenance relationships
A friend and I were talking about his love life and as he continues to talk shy-ly about it, he told me that it's no biggie since they're no high maintenance for affection. And really, I was struck. Who isn't high maintenance for affection? Don't you want frequent goodmornings and goodnights? To regularly see the person you adore. To constantly talk to him/her about your dreams, fears and random mumbles. It really kept me thinking. But maybe he's right. Revolving on another person would be mentally unhealthy and would figuratively consume you. And maybe this is the right age to understand or realize that life has unlimited adventures, but for a limited time. And giving every time to another would just be a waste. Maybe low maintenance affections would be healthy as long as both of you want and can maintain that level. At least there'd be balance. You can have fun with your friends and be with the person you love on some days. Next question, how do you keep